Tuesday, August 7, 2007

A common conversation






Sounds familiar huh~
Yep, this is a conversation between a guy and a gal which commonly happen around us.
Dun try to deny it, gals~

I suddenly had this thought in my mind and I discussed about this with my "Yam Char" (Hang-out) gang b4~
That day, my gf was not around...And one of my fren brought his gf along too~I took this chance to ask them about this..

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-GuaiSauJai
-Girl
-Girl's boyfren

"Ask u one thing, u gals like men who make decision for u or not wan? Like where to eat...where to go...stuff.."

"Sure~Coz thinking those stuffs are troublesome and lazy to think about that~"

"But...usually when a man makes a decision, u gals will just keep reject that idea and asking for another option wan is it??"

"..........."

***I can see her boyfren non-stop nodding his head till his spec almost flew away, from his eyes I can strongly feel that he agree and suffering from this situation..***

"Like, when I suggest go eat mamak, then gal will disagree and when I suggest go McD then she will disagree again wan. Then asking what she wanna eat but the answer will always be "Whatever~" or "U decide lar~", is it?"

"But u guys are so boring wan...keep suggesting the same stuff~Like just ate McD few days ago but will suggest the same thing again..So sien...Like him lar~Ask him decides what to eat, the answer for sure will be Mamak wan!"

"........."

***This time, the boyfren had nothin to say about it already cos she gave him a sibeh sibeh dulan look***

"Hahaha~ya rite~guys tend to stick to the same stuff that he getting used to it wan~I admit that..Is that mean in other word that if we always suggest a new place that never tried b4 then u gals will surely agree with that??"

".........Cannot say liddat also....depends what I feel like wanna eat that time lor..."

"So is it better u gals make the decision then?Seems we guys OK with everything wan~"

"I dunwan to think about that lar~"


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The best part of the conversation actually ended in this way...
And this links to another topic.......

p/s: Sure u guys will think that mayb I just had a quarrel with my gf so came out with this topic but the answer is NO. I'm good with her just that notice this situation quite some time ago and would like to share it out. Luckily she usually will agree with what I suggested. Hehe~

16 comments:

jolcy said...

seems like nobody wanna comment bout this.. hahahaha.. :P

btw.. i like your adopted doggy.. cute.. :) i think i want one too.. :)

Unknown said...

Dude, i agree with you! very good insight into the minds of typical women.

ps: notice the word "typical"..coz not all women are like that. :)

Eileen said...

I like jason's "typical" comment.. so diplomatic answer. Muahahaha...

I think I agree with you... But I tend to agree on what guys suggest, coz I know I wont be able to think myself. Unless I really craving on something, then I will voice out.

But I prefer a guy who makes a decision. There are guys who are the other way round, who keep asking u to make the decision. Trust me, IRRITATING!!!

guaisaujai said...

jolcy --> o___O double meaning here???

Jason -->Good ahh..."typical" women...smart guy!

Princes Eileen -->
Now I know what we guys should do next time.
We should ask in this way..

"Anything u feel like wanna eat today?" <-- Respect the gals and ask them 1st..

"No? Well, how bout ....."
<-- Keep throwing out suggestions till u hit the one she feels like going..

"Dunwan too?? Okie...let me cook for u then."
<-- With this, can showing that u dun mind cook for her and sure she very "lam" this..And this probably will end up she cooks for u when she sees u really can't cook.

I love u gals~

zewt said...

very damn true!!!!

just tell the girl.... eat what you want to eat... she said she dunno... just say... when you know when you tell me.

Albert Yap said...
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Albert Yap said...

My Solution,

Me:"What u want to eat?"
She:"cin cai la"
Me:"Pizza Hut?"
She:"very fat wor"
Me:"Hokkien Mee?"
She:"Hot la"
Me:"ok..I made 2 decisions but rejected...now your turn to make another 2, else, I go home cook maggie mee and you go home eat your salad"
She:".........."
Me:"So??"
She:"Go eat Pizza Hut la...Long time never eat already."

Vrrooommmmmmmmmm.........

KennetH said...

Yalo...cincai is better lar...Should open a corner name cincai..~

guaisaujai said...

Zewt --> The problem is, THEY LIKE GUYS THAT MAKE DECISION FOR THEM!! They think that's cool and very "Man"..Look at princess eileen~

Albert -->I bet this trick works on ur gf pretty well huh~hahaha..

KennetH --> Good Idea man! Just like the drinks in Singapore "Anything" and "Whatever".

hao said...

Wah, so many tips in the comment box. And the post is so true... lol

马铃薯比基尼妹妹 said...

well, when i read, d gal is on d right while d guy is on d left

guaisaujai said...

hao --> Yep, that's our tips in dealing this..hahaha..

杉 --> Oh really?? Let me read back...Ehm...lol, true also. But only for the 1st pic and the very last pic, sometimes I did that :P. I did explain this to my gf once, cos I really OK with everything, anything. I'm not choosy in what to eat wan. Then the questions back to girl side liao.So~whatever lar~u choose lar..
:D

Anonymous said...

Interesting dialogs but yea, i agree that you should change the position, cuz normally people read from left side. :)

阿~丁 said...

yo bro.. this is common liao.. coz they r 女人...

guaisaujai said...

Ringo --> Thanks for the suggestion..didn't notice that :P
By d way, no matter it's from left to right or vice versa, assigning which dialog spoken by guy or gal is optional. Like 杉 said, she thinks that guy usually is the wan that all d time "Whatever" instead of what I bringing up.

ah tiang --> LOLx. We still love them (gals) very much right~

Anonymous said...

haha i always ask "what you dont want to eat today?".. solves my problem ^_^